''I give thanks to my God always for you because of the grace of God that was given you in Christ Jesus, that in every way you were enriched in him in all speech and all knowledge—'' Romans 16:4-5 ESV







HOLY WEEK: Sunday, April 13, 2014 ~ Sunday, April 20, 2014


Series: Fighting For Your Family

Series: Fighting For Your Family
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Friday, November 19, 2010

Happy Thanksgiving ~ Love Language Minute ~ Love, Leadership, & Submission ~ "Putting God Back in the Holidays" by Bill and Penny Thrasher ~ Building Relationships Radio ~ Saturday, November 27, 2010 ~ "Dear Gary" ~ Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman

The 5 Love Languages Men’s Edition
The Secret to Love that Last
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Thanksgiving Day!
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Thanksgiving Day provides an opportunity to build family relationships. All of us are thankful for what other family members do for us, but we don't often take time to verbalize our thanks. Find a time today and privately thank each family member for something specific that you appreciate.

 You can invite each person to express thanks to someone. Gratitude recognizes that none of us live in isolation. Life is made much easier because we help each other. Giving thanks is a way of expressing love. And don't forget to thank God.

Do you really appreciate what others do for you? How do you express your appreciation? Perhaps you could ask: "What could I do to express my appreciation to you for all your hard work? Their suggestion may surprise you. But if you want them to feel loved and appreciated, then doing what they suggest is the best way to express it. Saying 'thank you' should not be limited to one day a year. Find a way to communicate appreciation to the people you love on a regular basis.

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The 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman


Happy Thanksgiving

Saturday, November 27, 2010

Featured Resource: The 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman.

Do you have a desperate marriage? Are you wondering about a dating relationship? Have problems with an in-law? Have a wayward child? We tackle questions like these on the November edition of Dear Gary.

 "Putting God Back in the Holidays"

Putting God Back in the Holidays
Celebrate Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter, Birthdays, and
12 Other Special Occasions with Purpose
Bill and Penny Thrasher

Bill and Penny Thrasher

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Love Language Minute ~ Love, Leadership, & Submission ~ Building Relationships Radio ~ Saturday, November 20, 2010 ~  "Putting God Back in the Holidays" by Bill and Penny Thrasher ~ Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman

Love, Leadership, & Submission
Dr. Gary Chapman

Deadlock Decisions

Most counselors agree that one of the greatest problems in marriage is decision-making. Visions of democracy dance in the minds of many young couples, but when there are only two voting members, democracy often results in deadlock. How does a couple move beyond deadlock? The answer is found in one word - love.

Love always asks the question, "What is best for you?" Love does not demand it's own way. Love seeks to bring pleasure to the one loved. That is why Christians should have less trouble making decisions than non-Christians. We are called to be lovers. When I love my wife, I will not seek to force my will upon her for selfish purposes.

The Head and the Helpmate

The biblical idea of the husband being the head of the wife has been one of the most exploited concepts of the Bible. Christian husbands, full of self-will, have made all kinds of foolish demands of their wives under the authority of "The Bible says...." Headship does not mean that the husband has the right to make all the decisions and inform the wife of what is going to be done.

She is called to be a "helpmate". The word means "helper". How can she be a helper if she has no opportunity to share her ideas? "Two are better than one," the Scriptures say. That is certainly true in decision-making. Why would a husband want to make a decision limited to his own wisdom when God has given him a helper?

Unity and Order

When Christians discuss husband/wife roles they often quote 1 Cor. 11:3 which says, "The head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man." They often stop quoting at that point, but the very next phrase says, "The head of Christ is God." Obviously referring to God the Father. Are God the Father, and God the Son equally God? Yes. Yet, within the trinity there is order.

As the head, does the Father ever force the Son to do anything? No. Does the Son ever act independently of the Father? No. There is perfect unity. That is the design for Christian marriage: husbands and wives working together as a team, with the husband as the recognized leader.

Understanding Male Leadership Biblically

I am fully aware that many contemporary Christians reject the idea of male leadership in the marriage. I think it is because they misunderstand the biblical concept of 'headship'. Male leadership in the home has nothing to do with superiority. It has to do with order among equals. God's design is that the husband will love his wife as Christ loves the church and make every sacrifice for her well-being.

Headship does not mean that the husband is more intelligent than the wife. It does not mean that the man is more valuable than the woman. And, it does not mean that the husband is to be a dictator. The great need of our day is for Christian leaders who will love, not dictators who demand.

Attitudes of Service

Many wives shudder when they hear the pastor say, "Turn in your Bible to Ephesians 5:22." Because they know that's the verse that says, "Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord." "But you don't know my husband," they think. "But you don't understand submission," God must say. You see, submission is not a female word . . . it's a Christian word. Verse 21 says, "Submitting yourselves one to another."

The word to husbands about loving, and to wives about submitting, both call for an attitude of service. Submission does not mean that the wife must do all the giving. The husband is to give his life for her. Nor does it mean that she cannot express her ideas. The goal is unity which requires both to have an attitude of service.

Adapted from The Marriage You've Always Wanted by Dr. Gary Chapman.

Building Relationships Radio
Saturday, November 20, 2010
"Putting God Back in the Holidays"
Dr. Bill Thrasher and his wife Penny
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Building Relationships Radio
Saturday, November 20, 2010
"Putting God Back in the Holidays"

Many come to this time of year knowing that something is missing, longing to have a true Thanksgiving or Christmas celebration. On this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Dr. Bill Thrasher and his wife Penny offer practical suggestions on how to put God back in your holidays.

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Putting God Back in the Holidays by Bill and Penny Thrasher

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